Author: Rubie Le faine

Rubie Le'Faine is the founder of Rubie Rubie and a writer specialising in emotional well-being, self-identity, and the psychology of modern relationships. She holds a Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Skills and has spent over eight years studying attachment theory, cognitive behavioural principles, and human development — first through formal study, then through lived experience that no course can replicate. After navigating a significant relationship breakdown, an identity rebuild, and the complex terrain of rediscovering herself in her 30s, Rubie began writing to make sense of what she had learned and to offer honest, human guidance to others going through the same. She founded Rubie Rubie in 2022 as a space for women seeking real answers, not platitudes. Based in Surrey, UK, her writing is grounded in research, shaped by experience, and centred entirely on the reader's genuine wellbeing.

7 Strategies a Sex Therapist Recommends to Bridge the Connection Gap with Your Partner

There is a quiet kind of disconnection that can settle into a relationship over time — not dramatic enough to call a crisis, but present enough to feel. You share a home, a bed, possibly children, a life — but somewhere in the busyness and the routine, the intimacy that once felt effortless has required […]

6 Timeless Tips from Warren Buffett to Build Wealth

If you’re looking to build wealth and secure your financial future, who better to learn from than Warren Buffett? Known as the Oracle of Omaha, Buffett’s investment strategies and financial wisdom have stood the test of time. Here are six actionable tips from Warren Buffett that can help you achieve financial success. 1. Live Below Your […]

7 reasons why you might be sabotaging finding Mr.Right according to Psychology

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If you find yourself sabotaging finding Mr Right despite genuinely wanting love, you’re not alone—and it’s more common than you might think. Psychology reveals that many of us unconsciously undermine our own romantic success through deeply ingrained patterns and beliefs. The good news is that awareness is the first step to change. Here are seven […]

Embracing Your True Self-Worth: A Journey to Confidence and Inner Peace

Self-worth is not something you earn through achievement, appearance, or other people’s approval. This is the central insight that most of us intellectually understand and emotionally resist — because the culture we live in is structured almost entirely around earning worth through external metrics. Productivity. Attractiveness. Success. Social status. Relationships. The implicit message is continuous […]

Am I on the Spectrum? Understanding Why Certain Things Annoy You While Others Stay Calm

If you’ve spent a lifetime being baffled by your own reactions — the way certain sounds can make you want to leave a room, the disproportionate irritation when someone chews loudly, the specific distress of a tag in a shirt or a seam in a sock — you may have wondered at some point whether […]

5 Traits Men Find Attractive in Women: Insights and Opinions

Attraction is complex, individual, and often defies neat categorisation — but that doesn’t mean patterns don’t exist. When you look across relationship research, psychological literature, and genuine human experience, certain qualities emerge consistently as genuinely compelling to people regardless of surface-level preferences. This is not a list of rules or a checklist to perform. It […]

7 Self-Care Tips for Busy Women: How to Prioritize Yourself Amidst the Chaos

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As a busy woman, it’s easy to feel like your life is a never-ending list of tasks and responsibilities. Between work, family, social commitments, and everything else, taking care of yourself often slips down the priority list. But self-care is crucial—it’s not just a luxury; it’s a necessity for maintaining your mental, physical, and emotional […]