About Rubie Le’Faine
Rubie Le’Faine is the founder of Rubie Rubie and a writer specialising in emotional well-being, self-identity, and the psychology of modern relationships. She holds a Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Skills and has spent over eight years studying attachment theory, cognitive behavioural principles, and human development — first through formal study, then through the kind of lived experience no course can replicate.
After navigating a significant relationship breakdown, an identity rebuild, and the complex terrain of rediscovering herself in her 30s, Rubie began writing to make sense of what she had learned — and to offer honest, human guidance to others going through the same. She founded Rubie Rubie in 2022 as a space for women seeking real answers, not platitudes.
Based in Surrey, UK, Rubie’s work is grounded in psychological research, shaped by years of personal experience, and written with one goal: to give readers the understanding they need to move forward with clarity and self-compassion.
Credentials & Experience
Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Skills | 8+ years studying attachment theory and CBT principles | Founder of Rubie Rubie (est. 2022) | Personal lived experience in relationship psychology and identity rebuilding
Topics Rubie Writes About
Rubie’s writing spans relationships and modern love, self-discovery and identity, emotional well-being, spirituality, and the everyday courage it takes to live with intention. Her personal essays are some of the most read pieces on Rubie Rubie — honest, occasionally funny, and always grounded in something real.